Barbidoesmiami

How to Stay Sane in the City of No Shame

calm before storm

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leila in a womb of her own

leila in a womb of her own

went out to an intimate lunch party on sunset island where a large table was beautifully laid out  on the jetty but after five minutes we moved inside because the sun was simply too hot ( I’m  used to running inside because of rain or bugs but never because of too much sun). sat next to a gorgeous wealthy brazilian peneleope cruz lookalike who pulled a picture, better not show the national enquirer, of her and obama from her purse, looking like the happy couple, same wide white smile, leaning into each other, she’d organized a huge fundraiser on fisher island for him a year ago, and reward was the sexy photo op which evidently she’s carried around ever since and unabashedly shows off. I must throw all modesty and self effacing tendencies out with the bathwater, have a hunch it might be taken for “loser” here, and must meditate on what i’ll flaunt. meanwhile our house is great. very euro living four floors one function per “etage”: garage/laundry/office on one,  living/dining/cooking on two, sleep/wash and dress (our closet is size of the pattiserie and that includes mark’s kitchen) on three, kids on top floor with huge wrap around terrace. but still had a bout of homesickness last night until i visualized midwinter, four feet of snow and not being able to find any dry matching mittens and then i was ok.  tomorrow first day of school for iona, she’s so brave i can’t imagine feeling  her confidence at fitting in and being accepted. at almost six feet she’s not awkward, like me, but  poised and thrilled at he idea of hundreds of kids who dont know her. but undoubtedly will. the twins are less thrilled and ask me if kids are ever home-schooled in miami.

iona fragmented

iona fragmented

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Author: barbidoesmiami

Barbi is a stupid model, fashion designer, writer about women and beauty, repurposeur of ocean plastic garbage into jewelry, mover from milford to miami, mother of iona kiki and leila, lover of alastair

2 thoughts on “calm before storm

  1. Hello……send pics of your house would love to see it…we will be there in December..if can can hang in there…xoxoxoxo

  2. I think the kids will survive and in some ways be better for it (a little controlled adversity in one’s early life is not that bad)…What you write about is a very gentle description of the absolute limitations of a system that believes it understands the one right way to school 50 million children. I am very impressed that the girls requested the option of homeschooling. It would be my choice for them, but I understand that mom and dad require a bit of space…there are many creative ways to homeschool however that do not result children being duck-taped to their parent’s hips for 18 years. For what it is worth I am the product of 12 straight years of public school–look at how I was warped and crushed by that experience. (Tell Oni she looks exquisite and sounds more mature than all of us.)

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